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The 2007 Reunion in San Diego brought back some memories for "Vinny" Venezia

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Shipmates: Reunion; “Get Vinny in His Rack”, Mary Soo And Others

 

I’d been off that boat, the SABALO, for just about 50 years this past April [2007] and lo and behold, here I went and signed up to go to the “final” SABALO Reunion held in San Diego also this past April.  I say “final” because that’s the way the Reunion was “advertised”.  You see, virtually all ex-crewmembers, particularly of my era and earlier, were getting quite long in the tooth, and since the life of SABALO began in WW II and lasted until 1970, Reunion attendees boasted ages that ranged from the upper 80’s down to mid 50’s.  The thought of them making another Reunion in a couple of years, was becoming doubtful…at least, having a meaningful and representative number of attendees in two years was becoming doubtful…so I believed the “advertising”.

 

Reunions are defined by me as events wherein the attendees have an opportunity to and really are expected to recall (common-to-all-attendees) events that evoke nostalgia and (hopefully) humorous interactions, and also to provide the basis for renewing friendships.  That I met and married my spouse, Barbara, subsequent to my detachment from the SABALO didn’t sway me from telling her: “You’ll have a ball…believe me, those were a great bunch of guys, and you’ll love them!”  By my own definition of Reunions, you can see that I really was betting on the come in expecting her to mix with a bunch of antique submarine sailors and their spouses and family members, virtually all of whom she had neither seen nor heard much about before.  But, pack up we did and then go to San Diego with great expectations.

 

The first night there was an evening of “getting organized” within the Holiday Inn where we stayed, locating the designated Reunion Hospitality Room and getting some dinner.  All tasks were accomplished successfully and since there were, would you believe it, some 100+ old sub-sailors and an additional 70 some-odd “guests” attending, we met several attendees and their families that evening in the motel bar and on the grounds.  It worked out that I knew none of these people since they had been on board the sub during  totally different decades than the one that contained my tenure.  These folks were, indeed, much younger than me.  That Barbara enjoyed their company set some of my fears to rest regarding her “…having a ball...”.   She noted that all the gals were in the same predicament as she was …and the guys were indeed, “OK”.  With that observation I thought, we might make the Reunion a fun thing, after all.

 

The following day saw me embroiled in a golf outing while Barbara did some San Diego sight seeing and shopping.  Again, not one of my actual shipmates from years past took part in the golfing thing.  It took until that evening when we were having a poolside social, that finally, a couple of gents from my era recognized me.  As a pair, they came up to Barb and me, introduced themselves and invited us to their table and introduced us to their wives.  I was tickled that they took the initiative since I didn’t recognize either of them initially, and probably wouldn’t have even if I had tripped over them.   They were Don Mibach and Ray (Ski) Tolowski, both of whom were aboard with me for the last year I was attached to SABALO.  This set the stage for us to finally have some people around that we could identify and socialize with for the majority of Reunion events.  By the way, Barb and I seemed to get along quite well with Don and Cathy Mibach and Ski and Diane Tolowski.  I got comfortable with that thought…and after our second drink together the “sea stories” started to fly.

 

“Yo Vinny, remember the skin-diving beach runs to Hanamu and Wiamea Bays and to Kaena Point?”

An animated Don chirped up with…a big grin on his face. 

“Yep.” I allowed, although while I fully recalled my participation in those Hawaiian expeditions, I really couldn’t tie Don into the beach-going group.  Things started to fall into place when Don recalled a trip to Kaena where we, about six or so guys off the boat, fell upon a large metal mesh fish trap in about fifteen feet of water just short of where the beach shallows ended and the depth dramatically increased.  There were, as I recollect, some twelve or more fish of real ‘good cooking’ size in the trap and we immediately started to plan on how we’d get those fish over our driftwood fire.  Don recalled the event completely and continued with:

“Harris (our Chief of the Boat) asked if anyone had some line (rope) we could use to tie to the trap and you ran up to your car and came back with some relatively heavy stuff…but not enough to tie on and still have the line reach the surface.”

My mind locked into the event with absolute clarity and I immediately thought of the wonderfully cooperative “ballet” that evolved amongst us.  We had to:

-go back to the trap equipped only with face masks and fins and snorkels,

-take turns tying two pieces of the line to two opposing ends of the trap’s steel framing,

-hold the lines vertically until all of us could get a (evenly spaced ) grip on them,

-then swim the trap up close enough to the surface for us to shift our individual grip to the trap itself, and hold it in that position relative to the surface while swimming it in to the beach…some forty or fifty yards away! 

That trap was so heavy that the only assurance I got that we were making progress, was that for the entire swim in to the beach, those fish in the trap were lined up with and also swimming in the direction we were going.

 

Get it to the beach we did.  Get those fish cooked over the fire and then eaten, we also did.  Did we have a tremendous feeling of accomplishment?  You bet we did!  Did any of us feel as though we stole anything?  Nope!   Our rationale held that: “That trap was just planted too close to shore by its owner…and therefore, was fair game!”   We just enjoyed the heck out of that experience at the time…and Don, Ski and I relived that superb interlude all over again, poolside…and even our ladies were mesmerized by the tale.  I tipped my imaginary hat to Barb when she allowed as how she had never before heard that particular story…and she then said to the girls:

“And I thought I really had heard all the ‘Hawaii stories’ since Howard and I met, married and had our first child in the Islands.”

Don asked: “Who’s Howard?”

I smiled.  This Reunion was going well indeed! 

 

Ah, sea stories…kicking around that ‘fish trap’ package immediately gave rise to other swimming and beach related stories such as when we got to capture a ‘3 footer’ sea turtle, took it back to the Submarine Base in Pearl, showed it off…then returned it to the beach where we caught it and tried to turn it loose.  The turtle was so shell-shocked by that time, all it did when released was dive straight to the bottom and lay there.  Since there were other spear toting skin divers around and we didn’t want that ‘poor turtle’ to get killed by one of them, we took turns going down, gripping the shell behind the head and above the tail and riding the turtle like we were hanging onto a planning board until he, or she, got tired of messing with us and instead of bottoming, headed for open water when released.  Talk about having fun reliving that story…wow!  Even recalling being hungrily shadowed by big Mako sharks when carrying a string of speared fish didn’t measure up to those two ‘sea stories’.

 

Not to be outdone, and changing the subject a bit, Ski offered:

“Man, Vinny…you were really something coming off the beach with a snoot-full!  Remember Don?  The night of the ship’s party in Honolulu when Vinny got lowered down the After Battery hatch…and all we could think about was: Quick!  Let’s get Vinny into his rack before the OOD sees him.” 

I guess Don was truly in on that incident because he laughed out loud.  Listening to the telling, all I could think about was; how I must’ve been dead weight and how they just missed coming up with hernias hauling me around and lifting me onto my bunk in ‘Hogans Alley’.  Seems we probably managed to wake up just about everyone that had been sleeping there…but, talk about your ‘success stories’, Ray added:

“The OOD never did suspect that Vinny, the ‘glorious leader’ of the ET Gang, had come back loaded and needed a bit of help getting to bed.” 

Barbara just shook her head with the telling and the other two ladies weren’t smiling.  Obviously, I didn’t recall a thing.

 

Over the next few days, the Reunion progressed nicely and I was reunited, mostly in spirit, with one of the younger, and at the time, socially reticent guys that had been in my Gang.  It was Larry ‘Doug’ Douglas , who, after the Navy, became a PhD and who also was now retired.  He and I rehashed stories of ‘fixing gear’, watch standing and some of the more mundane ET Gang-related boat-happenings.  It might’ve been somewhat boring except his perspective was different from mine and quite entertaining in the telling.  Further, I saw that he was now ‘super alert and attuned’ to everything around him, had a superb family and had attended the Reunion with spouse, grown daughter and her boyfriend.  It evolved that Mom and daughter were social ‘live wires’ and the daughter also found the time to beautifully organize all sorts of San Diego sight seeing for her parents…and to fit in perfectly with us ‘old timers’!  I thought: “Well…Doug, I probably should’ve paid you more attention in the old days.  You’ve done quite well!” 

Barbara also thought aloud: “That’s a fine family…and did you say he used to work for you?”

I nodded but made no further comment.

 

The Reunion progressed nicely and there were mini-reunions with several other men I overlapped with on SABALO.  There was Tom (Buddha) Beck who headed up the Sonar Gang…and who I worked with very closely because his equipment was loaded with electronic circuits that my Gang fixed when they broke.  Beck had been a somewhat chubby (hence the nickname, Buddha), hale and hearty Texan back in the old days…and now he used a cane and was bent almost double when he moved around.  It tore me up to see him as someone considerably less physically able than the shipmate I recalled.  During the Reunion social events when we were physically separated from Buddha, I thought; “It’s great that his wife, Nancy, was such a wonderful companion that, at times, she became ‘his legs’ in carrying messages for him to me and to others.” 

Despite Buddha’s physical limitations, the Becks currently headed up a food and shelter mission for the poor in their hometown in the Texas panhandle.  I was glad I knew him! 

 

Among several other old time shipmates that we met with over time, was an ex-Interior Communications Electrician who was very ‘familiar looking’ but who I really couldn’t recall well.  The problem was that he had checked on board only about a year before I left the boat…and he was, at the time, considerably more junior, so we naturally ‘ran in different social circles together’.  He got all in our small group to pay exquisite attention to his presence since he had an extensive, and at times embarrassing to us, photo album that documented our era.  It seems, to his credit, that he rose professionally from junior sailor on board to be the leader of his Gang and then…get out of the Navy, and become a millionaire.  He currently heads several companies that, among other endeavors, make aircraft parts and components and…provide commercial air services.  And, oh-by-the-way, he does some of these things with his own fleet of airplanes.  Digesting his ‘story’, put my relative success in life, and my life at sea, in perspective. 

“Millionaire indeed…Barb and I still closely watch our pennies!”

 

There were others from my SABALO past, who it really was fun to pass a few nostalgic moments with.  For example, a gent named (Clumsy) Bob Stiles who, our leading Radioman, ‘Pierre’ Dispenette, made immortal.  Pierre had done this through his repeated and humorous (to all except Stiles) ‘editorial’ comments in the boat newspaper that Pierre typed and edited, The Waipahu Outrigger.  I still smilingly recall Pierre’s exaggerated asides about how Stiles would manage to: “…trip over people in the upper racks when on his way to get seated for the movie in the Forward Torpedo Room”.   Pierre didn’t let up on him fifty years ago, and I just followed right along with recalling the ‘clumsy Stiles stories’ during the Reunion.  Shame on me, but Bob reveled in my remembering.  Even Barbara got a kick out of Stiles recounting one incident where he managed to spill coffee on three guys while enroute to his ‘perch’ in the Room prior to a movie.

 

These guys were my ex-shipmates and happily most of our recollections centered on pleasant events out of the past.   The euphoria continued into our last night together, at the Reunion Banquet.  It was somewhat of a surprise that virtually all these beat up old sub-sailors were quite presentable in suits or sport coats and ties…and that they soberly minded their ‘Ps & Qs’.  The dinner was enjoyable both from both culinary and social standpoints and, nearing its conclusion, we went into the ‘speaker phase’ of the evening.  Our Reunion organizers felt that after a few earlier formal words and a prayer, we should devote the remainder of the evening to the ‘telling of sea stories’.  This was, in my opinion, the hard way to go about obtaining entertainment, since if one spoke about events surrounding specific individuals, they limited their (knowledgeable) audience to just those that had been shipmates with those specific individuals…but that’s what happened.  An exception occurred when in the telling about some very colorful Main Engine exhaust problems when one of the Engine Rooms got coated with black soot, an aside was made that:

“…we waited ‘till we got to Hong Kong and had Mary Soo and her girls get that space spic and span again.” 

Going into Hong Kong Lagoon or Harbor, anchoring and bartering with Mary Soo’s Bum Boat Female Harbor Workers to get some ‘dirty work’ done on your sub or ship, was something each and every ex-SABALOite in the audience fully understood.  We were a Pacific Fleet submarine crew, and Hong Kong was on our agenda for each and every deployment.

 

Hearing about Mary Soo propelled me into my sea-story-telling mode.  I waited a bit and then got the attention of the ladies at my table…the guys followed suit…when I announced loudly:

“You all don’t realize it but I knew some REAL SUPER WOMEN!  I’m not talking about Wonder Woman, or Cat Woman or any of those comic book characters.  I’m talking about real flesh and blood SUPER WOMEN!”

I now had the undivided attention of all within hearing so I continued with how, on one trip to Hong Kong back in ’55 or ’56, we wanted to get Mary Soo to do some painting of the hull at the water line…and we settled on trading food for Mary Soo’s labor for that paint job.  I then said:

“Remember, I said ‘Super Women’…well, shortly after pulling into the Lagoon, I was topside getting ready to ride the water taxi in for some Kowloon liberty, when up out of the After Battery hatch came two sailors and a line.  That line was attached to something quite heavy because both those guys were really straining to haul it up and onto the deck…what it turned out to be was one of our stainless steel tubular garbage cans.”  Pausing for a breath, I continued…and gesturing the can’s size:

“These cans were some three and a half feet tall and about 18 inches in diameter and had opposing grip handles at the top.  I’m just guessing now, but when nearly full of liquid, these cans could go at well over a hundred pounds to tote to a receptacle…and that  particular can must’ve been just brimming full of ‘dynamited chicken’ resulting from a (predictably failed) curry dinner.” 

Again pausing to see that I had the attention of all, I went on:

“I know that that can must’ve been near full, ‘cause those two sailors each grabbed a handle to heave the thing off the deck and stumble their way aft.  They went aft almost to the turtle deck where they were just a bit higher off the water than the girls in one of Mary Soo’s bum boats.  They then struggled with that can to reach it over the to bum boat where it could be taken from them.”

I paused again for effect, and continued:

“Well, only one of the two girls in that skiff got under that can, reached up and took it from the sailors…and in a remarkable balancing act to keep from getting tumbled or maybe even capsizing the boat, that girl with full garbage can, tip-toed aft in the rolling boat, to a waiting tub…upended the can and poured the contents into the tub.  She then nonchalantly tip-toed back to the sailors and returned the can.  Folks, I was dumb-founded.  Watching this feat of strength, I knew I had actually seen a ‘Super Woman’ in action!  You can keep your Wonder Woman…she’s got nothing on one of Mary Soo’s girls!”  The reaction at the table included: “Wow!and that was enough for me.

 

Following the repast, there were goodbyes said all around, photos taken and an exchange made of e-mail addresses and phone numbers…and then more ‘goodbyes’ were said the following morning as we all took departure from San Diego…homeward bound.  Driving home, Barb and I agreed that the Reunion thing had indeed been fun.  And she added:  “I’m glad we went.”

 

© Copyright reserved by Howard Venezia, Winter Park, CO

Nonfiction. May 2007

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